In the “before times” (before COVID) Our in-store workshops would take place every Sunday from 7-9 PM on a wide variety of topics. As of Summer 2022 we are transitioning back into in-person workshops and testing out a few days of the week to see what works best for everyone now! Workshops will still be in-store in Alexandria, VA but days of the week may vary.

Workshops are usually lecture-style, but some have interactive demos or hands-on practice time. Everyone remains fully clothed and no one is required to do anything that makes them uncomfortable! The class portion is about 90 minutes long, followed by a half hour for one-on-one questions with the educator/s and shopping.

Our workshops are open to everyone 18 and over. You don’t need a partner unless the description specifically says so. Tickets are always sold individually. Classes are open to anyone, unless otherwise noted in the description.

Below are several workshops that we have previously offered. As we ramp up our offerings again, we will continue to add to this list. It is not comprehensive, nor does it mean we will be offering all these workshops. Rather, we hope to give you an idea of what our programming looks like. Make sure you follow us on Instagram and Facebook so you’re always among the first to know when we update our upcoming classes schedule.

Oral Sex for Vulvas & Vaginas

Oral Sex For Vulvas & Vaginas… commonly known as cunnilingus…

Even though it is one of the most consistent paths to pleasure and orgasm, cunnalingus is often seen as a daunting task. And It’s no wonder why, since vulvas, vaginas, and their owners are often referred to as as ‘complex’ and confusing’. How many of us didn’t even learn the term vulva and call everything the vagina? (Vulva= external; Vagina=internal) cunnilingus has an undeserved reputation of being one of the trickiest sexual acts to perform well. But, in this workshop we will dispel this myth and empower you with the knowledge of the body and to do one of two things:

  1. Provide immense pleasure to a person with a vulva
  2. Give you the language and info to tell someone how to pleasure YOUR vulva

Join Lotus Blooms Sex Educators as we goes over information relevant to all parties- people who HAVE vaginas and people who are pleasuring vaginas. This makes a fantastic workshop for a date night, though everyone- attached or otherwise- is welcome! We’ll discuss the basics of vulval and vaginal anatomy, and proper, effective, and fun, sexual communication. In addition, we will explore positions, stimulation techniques, and sex educator secrets to giving and receiving the best oral sex. Treat YOURSELF to a confidence boosting and skill building evening at Lotus Blooms so that you can have fun surprising your lover with something new!

Who is this class for?
We will mostly focus on information for cunnalingus givers. However, everyone is welcome to attend this workshop. Since we don’t often learn about the pleasure potential of vulvas and vaginas it will likely be helpful for some receivers to learn more & gather language to communicate with partners more effectively.

Blown! The Fine Art of Fantastic Fellatio

Are you new to the BJ game? Jumping back in after a sabbatical? Or are you proud of the oral accolades under your belt and just want to see if you know everything there is to know? Whichever category you fit into, join Lotus Blooms as we teach you ways to blow your beau (body and mind)!

Lotus Blooms Sex Educators will teach you how to go about finding what gets your partner off- hint, it has less to do with your technique and more to do with learning their pleasure patterns! Then, we’ll explore the anatomy of pleasure, review positions, & of course we will practice a few hand and tongue techniques that are sure to blow your partner’s mind and boost your confidence! We will check out the tools and products that help make the experience easier on the giver and more pleasurable for the receiver. Lastly, we’ll share our favorite toys to incorporate to touch and tease your partner.

We’re not just mouthing off, this is one class that’s sure to suck.

Compared to the Advanced Art of Fellatio:
This is an intro level class that’s great for building confidence, refreshing your skills, learning the pleasure points of how the penis works and functions, and learning how to communicate more effectively. In our advanced workshop, we delve into prostate play, tougher positions, lots of deep throat practice, and lots more fun- so pick the class that’s right for you!

Who is this class for?
We will mostly focus on information for blow-job givers. However, everyone is welcome to attend this workshop. It may be helpful for some receivers to learn more about their bodies & learn language to communicate to partners more effectively.

Blown Away! The Advanced Art of Fellatio

Oral adoration of your lover’s most intimate parts is one of the greatest gifts you can share with a partner, and we’re here to tell you that there’s no limit to what you can do with a little creativity and enthusiasm.

Building on what you already know, Lotus Blooms Sex Educators will cover:

  • Deep throating. We’ll really break it down & talk technique, positions, how to practice, how to breathe, & which angles work best
  • How to accessorize the penis for new pleasure sensations (think toys!)
  • Prostate play! We’ll talk about stimulating the prostate for in depth pleasure

We’ll cast your worries aside regarding the obstacles that can come along with blow jobs- the breathing, gagging, swallowing, worry about scraping. Join us for all the fun that comes along with taking your partners’ pleasure into your own… mouth. Treat yourself to a confidence boosting and skill building evening at Lotus Blooms; surprise your lover with something new and they’ll never forget you!

This is our “advanced” level class that’s great for building on what you already know and love. Plus, in this workshop we talk about using vibrating toys and exploring booty and prostate play during oral sex.

Compared to the “Fine Art of Fellatio” Class:
This is an advanced level class where we will we delve into prostate play, tougher positions, lots of deep throat practice, and lots more fun.  The “Fine Art” class is an intro class that’s great for building confidence, refreshing your skills, learning the pleasure points of how the penis works and functions, and learning how to communicate more effectively. Whereever your comfort level, pick the class that’s right for you!

Who is this Class for?
We will mostly focus on information for blow-job givers. However, everyone is welcome to attend this workshop. It may be helpful for some receivers to learn more about their bodies & learn language to communicate to partners more effectively.

Oral Sex for Every Body- Vulvas & Penises

According to our customers oral sex is one of the most pleasurable and intimate sex acts you can share with a partner. Because of that, there can be a lot of pressure to perform and respond – so it can also be one of the trickiest gifts to master giving! In this workshop, we’ll go over information and pleasure points relevant to all parties- no matter what you have or which genitals you’re trying to please!
Since we are covering topics for every body, we will split the time into thirds and discuss “the how’s” of pleasuring vaginas, “the how’s” of pleasuring penises, and all the things that overlap when it comes to oral sex no matter the genitalia.

In this workshop we will:

  • Go over the anatomy of penises, vulvas and vaginas (including g-spots)
  • Talk about how to make communication fun & erotic and most importantly, effective!
  • Practice tongue techniques on either lollipops or frosted cookies and learn ways to not fatigue so quickly
  • Check out the tools and products needed to make the experience easier on the giver and more pleasurable for the receiver
  • Suggest positions, stimulation techniques, and sex educator secrets to giving and receiving the best oral sex. Treat YOURSELF to a confidence boosting and skill building evening at Lotus Blooms so that you can have fun surprising your lover with something new!

Who is this class for?
We will focus on information for givers of oral sex play. Since we will talk about vulvas and penises, this is a helpful class for all people, and ultimately for givers and receivers since you’ll get to hear ‘both sides’. The tone of class will be taught with couples in mind, since oral sex tends to be (at least) a two person activity. Often, it’s especially helpful for heterosexual couples so that each partner can hear both what’s normal about their body and what’s pleasurable to the body parts they don’t have. The class can also be helpful for individuals just looking to learn more!

Tickets are always sold individually, so if you are interested in coming with someone else, make sure to get a ticket per person.

Booty Basics: Intro to Anal Play and Pleasure

Join Lotus Blooms Sex Educators  for an evening dedicated solely to the bum! In this booty-focused workshop, no topic is too taboo.  Our educators are trained in the arts of counseling, communication, education and will help to create an environment that makes talking about butt stuff comfortable and fun!

In this workshop we will:

  • Learn what you need to know to prep mentally and physically for the play
  • Discuss the wide range of options for booty play, including fingers, plugs, penetration, rimming, and more
  • Pass around the essential tools & toys used for play
  • Review the anatomy and pleasure points of the butt
  • Talk techniques for starting, playing, and taking care of things after play

There is so much to learn about the butt and so much misinformation out there! Spoiler alert- booty play can be SO pleasurable!  We are here to make a dirty topic… a little more dirty (in the best way!) and WAY more approachable.

Who is this Class for?
We will focus on information for both givers and receivers of booty play.  And since everyone has a butt, all booties are welcome to join no matter what adorning genitalia you also have.  This class is helpful for both parties within a couple who is interested in exploring anal play but need a bit more information before they take the plunge.  If you’re both going to be there when you play, you should both be here when you learn! The class will also be helpful for individuals interested in exploring butt stuff.  Everyone will learn something!

Please note that this is not solely a “penetrative anal sex” workshop.  While we will defnitely talk about it, it won’t be the sole focus, since there are SO many ways to booty play.

 

Pleasure your Partner: Exploring G-Spot Play & Squirting

Join us for an adult evening of “”X”” Marks the Spot as we learn how to explore the G-Spot.
The legend of the G-Spot has left many an amourous adventurer feeling lost. Where is it?!- How does it work? Can my partner really orgasm from stimulation? Can I really squirt? Does it even exist?!?! Have all these questions answered and more!

With a little know-how, you can have lots of g-spot fun, on your own or with a partner. We will tell you everything you need to know to get started
what toys work best for stimulation, tips for making play easier, how to relax and “give in” to the sensation, what to expect when you start exploring, and more!

Whether you or your partner are new to the “”spot”” play or just looking for some fun ideas, come get your questions answered and discover amazing new sensations!

Harness Your Pleasure: Strap-On Play for all Partners

Are you curious about stepping into a harness? Maybe nervous? Do you love strap-on play, but are tired of the same ole motions? Do you wish pegging your partner was more seamless? Wonder whether hip motion really matters?
Strap-on play can be a tantalizing experience for all partners. Sexologist Justyn Hintze will walk you through the basics for doing strap on play right for your body. In this workshop, we’ll cover strap-on play for all bodies, including the 5 Ws of harnesses:

  • Who wears the harness?
  • What’s the best way to maneuver?
  • What’s so great about strapping it on anyway?
  • Where’s the sexiest place to play?
  • When to wear it?
  • And why strap it on at all?

We’ll also get into:

  • Basic anatomy
  • Communication and how to introduce your strap-on desires to partners
  • Toy safety, and choosing the right harness and dildo for your needs

Join us to get a handle on the ins and outs of strap-on play, and learn what works best for your body to experience the most pleasure! We will have a variety of harnesses and dildos available to handle and for purchase.

Pleasure Your Partner: Erotic Sensation Play

What is the most erotic part of the body?
The skin, of course!
Averaging 1,000 nerve endings per square inch, there are so many ways to play! In this class we will explore a sampling of these ways through lecture, brainstorming and, of course, hands-on practice. Learn how to communicate, set up play, as well as techniques to:
electroplay,
suction play,
candle & wax play,
tickling
and spanking
The class will conclude with a brief interactive demo of violet wand play.
Everyone will stay clothed but we recommend comfortable clothing that you can move in! Prepare to roll up sleeves and tantalize the senses!

Couples Massage Techniques w/ Massage Therapist Chè Monique

Ever wanted to send your partner into complete relaxation bliss by giving them a perfect massage? Did it end up more than a little disjointed with you sore, needing a massage yourself? We’ve got your covered!

Join our guest educator, Chè- a local, licensed massage therapist- as she shows you the most wonderful ways to touch and relax or your partner. This massage workshop was designed to help people find new ways to draw closer together through the use of touch, massage and intimate communication!

In this workshop we’ll focus on improving the quality of your touch and making your massage sessions more sensual. You will learn how to help your partner reach a state of relaxation, surrender; where they can experience a heightened sense of sensuality and pleasure. Every part of the human body can be an erogenous zone, we’ll explore different ways to touch and how to ask which areas your partner finds especially pleasurable. You will learn how to touch and massage your partner in the ways that they most want to be touched.

  • Learn how to give a massage without your hands hurting.
  • Different positions to massage in
  • Make your massage last more than 5 minutes
  • Giving and receiving feedback
  • Reflexology points on the feet.
  • We’ll focus on back, booty and feet but we’ll probably go over the whole body
  • Basic strokes of Swedish massage

Inviting a partner or friend to the class will be make it possible to practice the techniques learned. Tickets are sold individually, so if you are interested in coming with someone else, make sure to get a ticket per person. The tone of class will be taught with couples in mind, since body massage tends to be (at least) a two person activity.

Per couple, please bring two pillows and one yoga mat (or something comparable to sit on) so that techniques can be practiced comfortably.

Introduction to Rope Bondage

Ever been interested in tying someone up but aren’t sure where to start? Want to be tied yourself, but your partner’s skills are unpolished? Join us as we demonstrate intro-level rope skills sure to leave your mind, heart, and partner tied in knots! The ties we will go over will include single columns, double columns, and a basic futomomo. This class is primarily focused on wrist/ankle restraints. This will be the perfect foundation for practicing rope handling skills- which come in handy for improving overall tying and connection with your partner!

Compared to “Rope Bondage for Sex Play”:
This class is more of an intro level class and will cover basic rope handling, safety, and wrist/ankle ties. In the Bondage for sex play class, we will cover more complex knots and rope harnesses.

Chairs tend to get in the way on this one, so please bring a blanket or yoga mat and lots of long rope! One bundle of our Bedroom or Twisted Monk rope (32 and 30 feet, respectively) work great but feel free to bring your own!

Rope Bondage for Sex Play

Are you envious of our tied mannequins? Want to experience more of what rope has to offer? Come to Rope Bondage for Sex Play! We’ll be focusing on how to tie harnesses that look expert level but are actually easy and practical. Rope harness can be used for bondage, strap-on, chastity play, or just look and feel great! Don’t worry if you haven’t been to another rope skills workshop before, all skill levels are welcome! Although, we do recommend that you check out our intro class first.

Compared to “Intro to Rope Bondage”:
Intro to Rope Bondage is a beginner level class that covers basic rope handling, safety, and wrist/ankle ties. Bondage for sex play covers more complex knots and rope harnesses.

Chairs tend to get in the way on this one, so please bring a blanket or yoga mat and lots of long rope! Two bundles or our Bedroom or Twisted Monk rope (32 and 26 feet, respectively) work great but feel free to bring your own!

Making An Impact: Intro to Flogging, Spanking & Impact Play

Find the idea of pain for pleasure delicious? Intriguing? Playful? Wonderful? Sexy? We do too! Join our educators as we break down (beat down?) how pain and pleasure coincide; how to build an impact play scene; how to shop for the perfect THWACK!; and how to do it all in a way that’s safe, fun, and –best of all– pleasurable!

Candlelight Delight: Erotic Wax Play for All

The hypnotizing flicker of the flame…the breathless wait for the first drop of wax to fall…the soft thrilled gasp as heat meets skin– is it any wonder that so many people fantasize about erotic candle wax play? Join Lotus Blooms educator Diva Darling for a playful, interactive intro to this sensual, sensory, and colorful art!

You will learn what types of candles to use for body-safe play, how to melt them (hint: flame is just one method!), how to set the scene for safety as well as seduction, and how to deal with your decadent mess afterward. We’ll also take a side trip into the special delights of massage candles and talk about combining wax play with compatible toys and kinks. And then it’s time for the big event: Learning the skills to wax yourself or a partner safely and sexily, and getting the chance to try it out.

While erotic wax play is a wonderful way to be intimate with one or more partners, it’s a form of sensory play that’s also a sexy addition to solo pleasure, and a partner is not required for the class. Materials are provided for in-class use, and you’ll have time after the workshop to browse our selection of candles and buy a take-home treat!

Note: The term “”erotic wax play”” is used here instead of “”waxing”” to distinguish what we’re doing from the kind of waxing that is meant to remove hair. That’s a class for another day!

Stepping into the Scene: What's Your Kink?

Are you curious about the kinky world beyond your bedroom? Have you heard of about BDSM events nearby, but have been too intimidated to make the first step? What if you’re struggling to explore your wildest fantasies? Join Lotus Blooms as we talk about getting the kink you want whether it’s in the public scene or private bedroom. Learn how to talk the talk, walk the walk, and flog the flogger so you can navigate the scene with confidence and pleasure (of course)! Develop your skills for asking what you want and getting what you crave.

Topics include:

  • People you may meet
  • Kinky lingo
  • Scene etiquette
  • Safety tips.

All are welcome– bring your burning questions!

Lady is a Vamp: Feminine Domination

Who says femininity needs to be demure? Or quiet? Or even soft?! Discover the Domme in you–no matter what that looks like! In this class we’ll be chatting confidence, connection, and techniques to explore your sexy, commanding self. Designed for anyone identifying as femme or feminine, this beginners class is aimed for every person who has an eager sub or wants to find one! You don’t have to be familiar with kink or BDSM to attend, just bring your yourself, lady!

This workshop will touch on some of the common toys and techniques at your disposal including bondage, impact toys, and strap-on play, but the focus is psychological. Open to anyone who identifies as feminine, femme, or feminine-of-center.

Women's Empowerment and the Art of Orgasm

Own Your O is all about learning more about what brings you pleasure!

Many times we are daunted by the idea that vulvas are complex and confusing- even for those of us that have them! But, in this workshop we will dispel this myth and empower you with the knowledge of the body and to do two things:

  1. Provide immense pleasure your own vulva
  2. Teach you the language and info to help you tell someone how to pleasure your vulva

Join Lotus Blooms Sex Educators as we go over information relevant to all parties- people who HAVE vulvas and vaginas and people who are pleasuring vulvas and vaginas.

In this class, we will discuss the basics of vulval and vaginal anatomy so we have a foundation to build from. Then, we will explore stimulation techniques for the vulva and clitoris and talk about building to orgasm externally.

Next, we will work our way inward and explore the G-spot and learn all the magic that comes with internal stimulation and orgasm. The legend of the G-Spot has left many an amorous adventurer feeling lost. Where is it?!- How does it work? Can I really squirt? Does it even exist?!?! We’ll answer these questions by providing specific techniques so that you can find out for yourself!

This is a great workshop for people who are a bit nervous to come to Lotus Blooms events or if you are in the newer stages of exploring your own body or partners’ body! The information is introductory level and a good overview of some of the things we go into depth about in other workshops.

Who is this Class for?
While Lotus Blooms’ workshops are generally open to people of all genders and sexualities, individuals, couples, or groups, this workshop is specifically for women-identifying people in mind. The content will be relevant to women across the age spectrum. This workshop is designed as a self-empowering experience, not as a how-to for partners. This time around, we ask that partners sit this one out.

Taking Pleasure to a Higher Level: The Basics of Sex & Cannabis

Whether you only partake at parties, or you’re an avid smoker, this interactive workshop will walk you through the basics of mixing sex and pleasure with cannabis.

Finding the right strains and methods of consumption for your body can be beneficial in a variety of ways. Along with stress relief, pain management, and the facilitation of relaxation, cannabis can also enhance sexual experiences and pleasure by increasing sensations and heightening arousal.

Cannabis Consultant Frankie Amitrano and Sexologist Justyn Hintze will delve into the basics of cannabis and pleasure, whether you’re solo or with a partner. We’ll talk:

  • Communicating about cannabis consumption, and extinguishing the stigma
  • Methods of consumption: tinctures, flower, oil, lubes, and edibles
  • The effects of topical highs vs smoking vs ingesting
  • What to look for in different strains, including the difference between THC and CBD
  • Medical benefits
  • Side effects
  • Body safety

Join us to get a handle on the ins and outs of sex and cannabis, and learn what works best for your body to experience the most pleasure!
Side note

This is not a smoking event, nor a selling event. No cannabis will be on (or allowed on) premises due to Virginia law. Rather, we will be discussing the benefits and safety of using cannabis during sex play so that you are empowered with the knowledge to practice and play safely!

Even Better with Time: A Workshop on Sex, Pleasure, & Menopause

If you’ve ever thought about- What does this all look like? When does it begin? What are things I can do today for a better sexual health tomorrow? Join our sex educators as we talk about fluctuations of hormones, blood flow, relationships, desire, and sexuality across the lifespan as well as tips to keep that fire alive! After all, pleasure has no age and sex is for every body!

In this workshop we’ll cover the following:

  • Typical expectations of biological and physiological change in bodies during menopause & andropause
  • Reframing your brain when it comes to sex across the lifespan
  • Fun suggestions to adapt your play to the changes in your body
  • And more!

 

Joy of the Toys! Sex Toys for Couples Play

Toys are for adults too! We promise.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if more people embraced sex toys as a helpful, integral part of their sexual play? Interested in incorporating toys but unsure where to start? In this workshop we’ll take toy myths down one by one and focus on safer toy use. Lotus Blooms sex educators will introduce all different types of sex toys – and helps match you (and your partner) with the perfect toys – whether you are a beginner or advanced user.

Discover new ways to enjoy full-body foreplay, the joy of sex with the added sensations that toys can bring, and more. We know that navigating the waters of new things can be a a challenge, so we’ll role play ways to make is just as fun as the toys themselves!

You’ll learn various ways to use each toy both flying solo and with partners as we cover the anatomy of pleasure, toy materials and maintenance so you’ll be sure to get the best bang for your buck. Join us after for shopping, and put your new-found knowledge to work to find the perfect toy for you.

Sexy Time for New Mamas

Pregnancy and postpartum come with so many changes: our bodies, energy and identities. How can we be aware of what our sexual and relationship needs may be in the midst of so much change? How can we take care of our bodies and relationships during all of these transitions? How can body and sex positivity help us embody the powerful babes we are, even as we make and take care of babies?

Come learn strategies for loving and feeling pleasure in your body as it prepares for birth and beyond! From positions and props, to common challenges and navigating them compassionately and gracefully. We’ll discuss communication techniques to bolster and continue to cultivate romantic relationships and ways to accommodate our bodies as they grow, heal, and feel oh so very tired!

Who is this workshop for?

This workshop would be great for someone pregnant all the way through early parenthood. This workshop will be taught through a self-care lens and how that lens can be applied throughout those different phases. We will focus a bit more on the earlier parenthood side of things and explore the new identities that emerge from this part of life. We’ll talk about sex in the context of it’s connected to your entire personhood and how to practice balancing it all.

The current presentation of this workshop centers the experiences of cis-gender women in heterosexual, primary relationships. However, all identities of birthing parents are welcome to attend.